![]() ![]() Since this is almost always the case, you're going to need something of a timeline of how long you're going to be patient with him, before he figures out who he is or what he's going to do about a relationship with you. ![]() No matter how healthy someone seems on the surface, someone who finds himself in an unhealthy, toxic relationship usually attracts that relationship - and that person who contributed to the toxicity - because of a relationship dynamic that initially worked for one or both of them.Īnd while it's good he's no longer in it - for him and for anyone he's going to date because toxic relationships don't get better over time, there are some things to watch out for.įirst, is this "patience" he's asking of you because he's creating some emotional, physical or mental space so he can stay in control of the relationship, keep things from going to fast, and generally keep a grip on his independence because he fears being drawn into a similar relationship? That alone means he's going to require some special handling. When someone says he's in a "transition phase" after a toxic relationship, the first thing you need to do is understand that this is a guy who, for whatever reason, was involved in a toxic relationship. You need to understand the difference between the two. ![]() Very few of us would describe our strongest attribute as patience, but there's something you need to know about when it's a good thing to work on your patience with a guy who asks you to be, and when it's actually a very unhealthy thing to expect of yourself. I'm going to get to your question about playful distance in a moment, but first I want to talk about something else you brought up here - patience. Welcome to our community, Claire! I'm so glad you found your way here. (too much masculine energy !)ĭating a new guy(someone I met years ago) but he's in a transition phase after a toxic relationship. I'm working on my own triggers & have been guilty of chasing before. In your video, you mention maintaining a playful distance. She's dating a guy who is asking her to be patient with him because he's not ready for more of a relationship. ![]()
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